If I had a € for every time someone moans about "not being informed about <EVENT>" #incidentresponse for a total of X €,

and had to subract every time I've asked, insisted, thrown-policy-at, or outright begged them to share information about <EVENT>-like things themselves but getting told "Fuck off, you can't make me",

I'd still have X €.

(Also, I *can* make them, but Adversarial #CISO:ing is not a success recipe)