3) I got into a verbal fight which felt awfully lot like a man explaining me things I know better, and did not stand down. Well, to a degree that third parties heard about how watching us duel was interesting.
We yield rather than defend our positions. We choose often the fight to die before it starts. The fact that it happening reach people who weren’t there to watch it says it’s unusual.
I’m sure the spectators saw it in various light, but hearing back through the positive loop of how nice it was to see how I date changes to explain differences of what we experience was at least educational.